1) Laugh & everyone has a laugh with You
Enjoying a good time is catchy and who doesn't love hanging around positive characters? Distribute good feelings and get prepared for creating a great first impression. Concentrate on happy thoughts and keep the conversation light hearted, uncontroversial and frothy. Feel great about yourself and you will frequently see that others will be drawn to you.

2) Transmit Transparent Cues
I apologies ladies but its the case, a large quantity of guys are famously bad at interpreting signals from women. Happy behaviors may just mean you're a friendly kinda chick. Avoid sticky circumstances by knowing what you are looking for when you behave flirtatiously and make sure your signals are obvious. If you really want to hook up with guys then by all means flirt, just make sure you know how to distinguish the sexual flirting signals from the 'hi, I'm a nice girl' flirting signals.

3) The Ice Queen; a Major Turn Off
Ensure you look friendly. Poised like an ice queen won't draw people to you and you could unconsciously be sending out keep away cues when deep down you are keen for a guy to approach you. Review which cues you are sending and if it's failing, adjust them. Why not ask friends to offer you some constructive criticism?

4) Even the Hottest Girls gets The Brush Off!
From time to time things don't work out for whatever reason. The truth is that everyone has come across rejection in one area of their life. Don't linger on negative responses, alternatively look out for compliments, internalize them and shrug off rejection.

5) Ooze Charisma
One simple rule of thumb for any ensemble is that if your mother would wear it, you shouldn't. If you look at your reflection and think, "Do I look ridiculous in this?" lets face it - you probably do.
But at the end of the day, if you feel attractive you'll come across that way too. If you feel positive and self assured then you'll emanate sexiness!

6) Let Your Body do the Talking
What is the trick behind a woman mesmerizing effect on guys? Being flirtatious with flair. We can all do it. We just need to pick up the actual tick. The up side? The ability to be flirtatious is hard wired; its about being self assured and being able to sexily be in your body. The other trick is being able to grasp body language. Us ladies may be concerned about how we communicate but the truth is it's our bodies that do most of the communicating. Communication is two thirds non-verbal. So watch what your body is revealing. Researchers claim you can enhance your ability to attract men by about 70 % if you can improve your body talk.

7) Reveal Your Sensual Glow
If you are chatting with a man you like then mirror his body communications and mode of behavior and they will sense you have something in common with them. Stand up straight and lean fractionally forward, turning your body to face his more directly, and keep physical barriers out of the way; be sure not to cross your arms like a fortress.
Critically, emanate the appearance of vitality. Appear energetic, glowing even. Imagine you have just had an amazing kiss and have a sexy aura about you.

8) Be Like Marylin Monroe
Confidence is without doubt the most appealing of all traits. have a quick chat with yourself before you go out and remind yourself you're wonderful!.
If you need a little help in the self assurance stakes, pretend till you get there for real. Discover a role model you can emulate, think Madonna or Marylin Monroe. Just think how they would behave, feel and walk. Think of what characteristics make her sexy and how she communicates these physically.

9) Listen Up Ladies
Probably the most important flirting taken is simply listening. Guys love discussing themselves. They like being the subject of conversation. Ask open-ended questions - or, questions that can't be answered by a yes or no answer. Tilt your face, look him in the eyes and nod as he speaks - make him feel like the most fascinating and funny man alive.

10) Monitor His Signals
So think you've met Mr Right? Wondering whether the stud you've had your eye on all night is also keen on you? Its time to read the signs¦
Think hes interested? Notice a few of these signs and you could well be on the money:
Looks at you
Turns his body towards you
Plays with his tie
Slight movement of the pelvis backward
Leans towards you
Smiles when he catches your eye
Holds himself in an open body stance
Ladies, get out there and put your new flirting and dating confidence to the test!