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Your Dating Expectation

by alex | 7:42 PM in adult date, adult friend finder, dating agencies, dating scene, dating sites, dating today | comments (0)

The troubles with dating today is that it is so commercialized that everyone expects so much of their date and in the end everyone gets disappointed.

The dating scene is so expectant and hoping to find love with unrealistic expectations which inevitably leads to failure. It doesn’t have to be like this however and changing your expectation of everyone else is a step in the right direction. Now there is a difference between lowering your expectation and changing it.

You can still be after the right partner but just don’t expect to find them on your first attempt or expect them to fulfill your every desire. Because we all know that this is very much unrealistic. The state of the advertising business today is much to blame for its images of the always happy couple painting a picture of endless happiness.

How are the dating agencies able to love up to everyone’s expectations of this world of endless happiness when it doesn’t exist? Even though everyone knows that there dating expectations are high they are unable to change them as they have been adopted from a young age.

Now all this misrepresentation of how the dating scene actually works creates end user dissatisfaction which hurts the industry. However all the hype is created by the industry so you could say they are hurting themselves.

This dissatisfaction comes from users signing up for free dating services only to find out that they offer a limited service where often the user can not even view the other people online. Ways that you can skip this step would be to only sign up to well rated sites.

These sites are reasonably well trusted but often do not cater for the niche market. They are a broad friend finder type service with a large client base but if you are really looking to target your search it is not recommended.

The reason I am posting this article is because I am seeing so many people unhappy with the state of the hyped up dating scene and feel society needs a reality check about what they are expecting from others. Dating sites are only there for you to meet people, from there the work becomes yours and keeping from being disappointed is up to you. It depends on your state of mind and what you are expecting of the date chosen.

Keeping an open mind about how the date will go will not only enhance the chance of success but more importantly change your perspective of how you see dating sites working for you.

Women Dating Younger Men

by alex | 6:40 PM in adult finder, adult online dating, dating personals, dating sites, dating youger men, women daters | comments (0)

There appears to be a trend of older women dating younger men, notably illustrated by celebrity couples including Demi Moore and Aston Kutcher, Halle Berry and Gabriel Aubry, and the most recent fling between 48-year-old Linda Hogan and 19-year-old Charlie Hill. According to a study of 50,000 women daters over 30, conducted by an online dating site in 2007, more than one-third of the subjects showed interest in men at least 5 years younger. And in 2003, an AARP survey revealed 34 percent of 3,500 women (between ages 40 and 69) dated men who are 10 or more years younger than themselves. This trend appears to be shocking to some people, but I don't find it so unusual.

Socially, there's a role reversal of sorts going on, women are more powerful now than ever before and may want men who are younger, and perhaps, more flexible; men who can handle it if the woman's career and lifestyle takes priority over their own. Media portrayals in "Sex and the City" (like movie characters Smith Jerrod and Samantha Jones) and "Desperate Housewives" are also showing women that dates don't have to be older. Women who have high-powered careers -- or a well-developed self-image -- are exercising more choice. Women who have been divorced and are established single moms may enjoy having a playmate, someone to have fun with; who doesn't try to control her.

Can these older woman/younger man relationships last?

There are many relationships succeed with this kind of older woman/younger man scenario.
The media focuses on the age difference, but what really makes or breaks the relationship is how well the couple can form a partnership that works.

Age difference is an adolescent worry: When you're a teenager, an age difference of even two or three years makes a vast difference in your experience and your outlook on life. Such a difference can interfere with communication, life goals, outlook, and relationship experience. In addition, for the young, the social reaction to such a relationship is often negative. If one partner is underage, a sexual relationship is even against the law.

But, as you get older, life experience and emotional growth help to equalize your relationship skills and resources. A 10-year or more difference in your ages makes little difference in how well you can conduct your relationship.

Don't focus on an arbitrary numbers difference in your ages. If you are getting along, you have good communication and problem solving, and you love each other, that's a precious thing, and far more important than any age difference could be. If other people have a problem with it, let it be their problem.

Whether or not a relationship is healthy is not determined by age differences, but by the interaction between the partners. A 10-year difference is not too difficult to bridge, but a 20-year differences or more in age can lead to some difficulties as the partners get older. For example, the younger partner may mature and reconsider his or her choices, or an older partner may confront aging problems much sooner. But, as long as both parties are adult, and the couple has talked about their age difference and the future possibilities, I don't make judgments about their respective ages.

Dealing with the generation gap

There are healthy and unhealthy reasons to date someone of a different generation.One
inappropriate motivation for dating a younger person is fear of aging on the older person's part. A younger partner isn't going to reverse the aging process or protect you from old age. Obviously, a man or woman who dates someone as young as his or her children is going to run into some social opposition, but the differences that can cause the biggest problems within the couple's relationship are differing maturity levels.

As more and more women choose younger partners for relationships, the question arises: Are women in their late 30s and early 40s likely to be successful with partners who are 10 to 15 years younger than themselves?

Success in these relationships depends on what the motivations of both people are. Some older people feel younger at heart than their contemporaries and like to date people who are as active as they are. Chronological age doesn't always reflect either physical capability or emotional maturity. Sometimes an age difference creates a mentoring relationship the older person advises the younger one on life or career. This can backfire if and when the younger person decides he or she has learned enough, and wants to move on.

If you're asking: "Is it OK for me to have a partner who is much older or younger than I am?" You'll do better off if you forget about your ages and concentrate on whether the relationship works for both of you, or not. What really makes a romantic relationship succeed is the emotional connection.

Dating Tips For Beginners

by alex | 10:26 AM in adult dating, adult online dating, dating online Montreal, dating services, dating sites, dating tips for beginners, online dating in internet | comments (0)

Remember the days when dating meant gentle courtship over leisurely romantic meals, walks in the park and flirtatious love letters? Well for the most part, they're long gone. That's all been replaced by IM, emails, message boards and video mail. People are hooking up with others from all over the world using the internet and you better get on board, or you'll get left behind.

Online dating used to mean creepy men in raincoats heavily breathing over their computers as their greasy palms typed away trying to seduce some unsuspecting woman 300 miles away. Or so the urban myth goes. Now it's de rigeur to chat and flirt online. In fact, if you've never had a date online, you're missing out on what over 20 million people are enjoying every month.

So, now you know you want to be in the mix, but you don't know where to start. There are so many dating services available that cater to every taste and desire. You know you want a reputable service that attracts quality profiles, because at the end of the day, you are looking for someone to either share your life with or other unmentionable stuff, if you know what I mean.

If you want to avoid parting with your hard earned cash, only to be ripped off with fake profiles and creepy dates, then check out dating reviews, do your homework and research the sites. Open a few free accounts and find out exactly who is online, then make your decision and go for it.

Here are some top tips to help you get on the dating road to success:

1. Research dating sites and open a few free accounts to investigate further

2. There are lots of 'niche' sites out there, so if you are into biking or bungee jumping, there's bound to be a site out there for other crazy, sorry, I mean adventurous people too.

3. Write a fantastic profile. Who wants to read a dull profile that gets lost in the sea of thousands? Make yours stand out, be honest, be funny, be intelligent and intriguing

4. Take a great photo. Don't show the same ole black and white one from your high school graduation. Invest in a great picture that shows you off at your best.

5. Don't give out ANY personal details when you're getting to know someone. It's just not worth it. Wait until you're really sure you trust them

6. Don't be disappointed if a date doesn't work out. Just have fun and move onto the next one. Online dating is no longer some weird geeky or creepy thing to do. It's perfectly acceptable in society, fun and you know what? Even people who you think don't do it are doing it all the time!

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